Is dating still important once we reach the grand-parenting stage? You bet it is! Nurturing and growing relationships are important no matter what stage of life you’re in. In fact, I would vote for it being more important as our schedules are so crowded and there’s a tendency to take, even the best, relationships for granted. So, it may have been a while since you and the hubby went out on the town, but today’s a new day. It’s time for you to put on your dancing shoes and hit the dance floor! Okay, maybe not that crazy, but here’s a few date night ideas that even grandpa will get out of his chair to attend. 

1. Who doesn’t like a delicious meal? Make date night special by choosing a new restaurant. We all get set in our ways, so shake it up a bit and look for some new adventure you can explore together. 2 papa and I have started sharing every meal (saves money and calories) so that also creates an opportunity to work together for the good of the whole. (You get what I mean? He keeps his weight down by me agreeing to eat what he picks.) And don’t forget to put your cell phones up and focus on each for the entire meal. (We’re notoriously bad at this, but working on it.)Talk about your hopes and dreams for the future or an upcoming trip or some fun event in the past. Just enjoy being together.
2. Yes, we are all tired! But, just a few minutes into a physical activity, like walking, will get you going again. On the next pretty night, invite your spouse to a stay-in date night. Again, cell phones put away and focus on your relationship. Start the night with a walk around your neighborhood. Chances are you haven’t seen it in a while and it will be fun to see what’s going on with the neighbors. Then, head back home and cook a simple meal together. I’m going to suggest salmon or fish, as either is quick and easy. You could put potatoes on to bake before the walk so they will be that much closer to done when you get back. Then it’s just a few minutes to cook the fish/salmon, make a salad, and maybe sauté some frozen green beans and you’re done. Don’t forget the candles on the table for a special touch of fun!
3. Our little town doesn’t have many options for date night, so movie night is our go-to option. To keep movie night fresh, pick the 3 D version if you can stand the effects (we both love it!). Just seeing everyone in those funny glasses will make the night more fun. And don’t forget the popcorn. Popcorn is great to share, better than the sugary snacks, and makes the night feel like a treat. We also buy the large water and ask for courtesy cups so we can share. One more suggestion with this one: invite a young couple you have never got out with. Again, we get pretty set in our ways so invest some time in a young couple from church, work, the neighborhood, or your family. Watching your spouse mentor a young couple will make you love him/her more!
4. If you’re like us, your grandkids have hit the “sports” stage, so any given night, someone is playing something. But, date night can still happen even if it’s basketball Friday night. Often, we go out to eat on the way to the game and treat the game as a date. We sit beside each other and cheer the grandchild on to victory. Seeing the legacy that we have created boosts our love for each other and it doesn’t even matter who wins the game. 
5. This is one that is new to our area, but we are loving it. Go on a food truck date night. If your town has a food truck park, it’s fun to go from truck to truck to see what’s cooking. Then eat outside and enjoy the evening. Many food parks have entertainment so it’s a two in one! If you’re really lucky, you might get to dance under the stars. 

So, have fun on your next date night. Trust me, your grandkids will think you are ROCKSTARS for doing special things together. It makes them feel safe and secure. I would love to hear what you did on your last date night. Leave me a message!